🌻梅耶·马斯克（特斯拉传奇缔造者埃隆·马克思的母亲）的自传，记录了她自己努力奋斗，时刻充满能量的生活。她最可贵的地方是永远没有被年龄限制住，时刻有能够放弃一切重新开始的勇气，在南非、加拿大和美国都重新开始了自己的事业并获得成功，虽然人生的前半部分她一直为了生计在奔波，但她始终坦然面对任何困境，从不丧失信心，逐步解决困难。另外一点就是在教育方面，她从不去限制孩子们，而是对他们所感兴趣的一切都认真对待，正是在她的培养下，三个优秀的孩子都在不同的领域有很高的成就。她的自传是一本可以参考的优雅老去的指南，不要惧怕年龄和眼前的困境，始终努力，人生的下一个十年一定会好过前一个。
1⃣️提前做好完备的计划是为了更好的适应变化
Having a plane does not mean that things will go right. It means that if things go wrong, you will make another plan.
2⃣️有想要的东西便要积极去争取
If you want something, you have to ask for it.
3⃣️ 年龄不是女人放慢脚步👣的借口
Woman don’t have to slow down as they age.
4⃣️照顾好自己
Look after yourself as best you can by eating well, smiling, and being active, happy, and confident.
5⃣️学会倾听👂
My advice is to be kind to others, listen to others, and be upbeat. Don’t start talking about your miserable life. Show confidence ,respect, interest in others, and smile; that will make you fascinating.
6⃣️时刻充满自信
Confidence gets knocked out of you many times.Sometimes you have to fake confidence by walking tall. It’s a game. When you slouch, you look sad and insecure. When you walk tall, you look strong and confident. If you want to look and feel more confidence, start with better poster. Stand up straight. Put your shoulders back, have a pleasant expression on your face, and look at people when they talk to you; don’t look away. Call this your confidence game. 7⃣️不要活在别人的期待中
You don’t always have to follow what is expected of you. You can go your own way.
8⃣️把握住机会
Now matter how big or small the opportunity, someone else will always answer the question for you of “Why not?” But think about what’s going to make you happy. Keep opening doors for yourself in your life; you just never know until you try.
9⃣️关于教育孩子
Children don’t need to be protected form the reality of responsibility.
🔟时刻有重新开始的勇气
Starting over is hard, especially if it means moving to a new place. You have to kiss a lot frog before one turns into a prince.
1⃣️1⃣️关于幸运
The harder you work, the luckier you get.
1⃣️2⃣️不要害怕被拒绝❌而放弃尝试
There’s no such thing as a guaranteed yes, but if you don’t ask, it’s a guaranteed no.
1⃣️3⃣️关于科技
Tech can open so many opportunities for you-for business, your health, or just for fun to connect. You’re never too old to learn new technology.
1⃣️4⃣️关于失误
Learn from your mistakes and plan ahead. I just kept working hard, making new plans, and moving forward.
1⃣️5⃣️不惧年龄
One reason I’m not afraid of aging is that every decade of my life has been better than the last.
